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If You Don’t Want Your Sons to Struggle in the Future, Teach him these Hard Truths Today

If you don’t want your sons to struggle in the future, teach him these hard truths today. #ParentingTips #RaisingBoys #SmartParenting 

As parents we know its hard to explain many things in the world especially those that


If you don't want your sons to suffer in the future, you tell them this. Tell them the hard truth. Even it is uncomfortable now.

I've been a father and an ex-school teacher for 11 years, a boss for 20 years and I've seen hundreds and thousands of people grow up and become successful. Leaders, engineers, doctors, top chef in the world and some of them never did make it and some struggled because nobody tell them the real truth. So this is what I tell my boys now and I'll keep telling them when they're older and you should tell your children too.

This is my story and three hard truth I'll tell them. The first hard truth, pain fuels success. Studying is boring, doing homework is painful and learning manners is tiring but this build the foundation of your life.

It builds the skills of your life. If you put in the hard work now, the chances of being the top 10% of the society will skyrocket. You'll be amazingly high.

Skip school, skip homework and scroll the phone every five minutes. You'll work for the hardest job for the lowest pay. I've seen it many times.

Second, no one owes you anything. The only people who will give you free lunch are your parents. Outside in the real world, no one cares about your excuses.

They care about what value you bring to them. The more value you bring to them, the more reward you have. No value, no life.
The third hard truth, being respectful opens doors. Hard work alone will not work. I tell my boys, be respectful to everyone.

Your teachers, your seniors, even waitresses and cleaners because manners and relationships will help you to go further and not just the brainpower. I've seen many successful people. They might not be the most skillful in the room but they do have the best manners and relationship with everyone in the room.

They treat people right. They might not be the most smart in the room but they are the ones who have the best relationship among people. Parents, these lessons may sound harsh but then it is love in disguise.

If we do not tell them now, life will teach them the hard way next time. So mom and dad, what are the hard truths you tell your children? 

Let's raise strong children together.

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