You need to be more careful about what you ask Allah for, and even more careful about what you say, because in the Qur'an, your words, they're not just sounds, they're a form of dua. This is why Allah Himself says that every word that you say is recorded by the angels, and it'll become manifest on the outside. Why? Because it has an effect on your nafs. And Allah Himself says that He will not change the condition of a people, till they change their nafsu. And you look at the story of Prophet Yusuf عليه السلام when he said to his father, I see stars, moon, and the sun, they're all prostrating to me. And that's exactly what happened at the end of the whole story. His own father says that I fear that the wolf is gonna be eating him, and his sons come back to him saying what? The same exact words that he said. And when Yusuf عليه السلام said that " jail is more beloved t...
People don't change unless they want to.
Your partner's annoying habits won't magically disappear because you nag.
Your friend's self-destructive behavior won't stop just because you disapprove.
Your parents' outdated views won't suddenly shift because you argue.
As the saying goes, you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink.
You can offer support, share wisdom, even set an example. But at the end of the day, change comes from within.
It's frustrating to watch someone you deeply care about make the same mistakes over and over. But the energy you spend trying to change others is energy you're not investing in yourself.
Your job isn't to fix people. The only person you can truly change is yourself. And sometimes, that's the change that inspires others the most.
When you gangsta but still live with yo parent..
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